Episode 76 – Maintaining Intimacy & Connection in Relationships

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Have you been in your relationship for a while? Are you thinking of ways to keep the home fires burning? How do you maintain intimacy after so much time?

In this episode of The Shrink Think podcast, Nathan and Aaron answer all these questions and more as they share more about maintaining intimacy and connection in relationships.

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Summary

  • What is intimacy?
  • What can you do to protect your intimacy?
  • How can you communicate most effectively?

What is intimacy?

  • It’s to know, and to be known
  • Ask: What do you know about this person? What do they know about you?
  • Feeling safe to reveal all parts of you

What can you do to protect your intimacy?

  • Maintain trust with one another.
  • When you don’t feel fulfilled, you can shut down and feel hurt, which pushes a button with your spouse. Avoid this reactive cycle.
  • Try not to project any past pains that could hinder vulnerability.

How much attention does attention need?

  • It fluctuates throughout life!
  • Children can hinder closeness in your relationship.
  • As the children grow older, you’re given the opportunity to rekindle your romance and spend more time together!

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Meet Nathan & Aaron

Nathan Hawkins and Aaron Potratz are both licensed therapists and clinical supervisors in the state of Oregon. They each own their own private group counseling practices and co-own a third group practice together. Nathan and Aaron have been in the field since 2004 and 2007, respectively, and have over 100,000 hours of therapy experience each. On their show, they discuss facing fears and common challenges from a therapist’s point of view, imparting wisdom and humanity to their viewers. Along the way, they hope to not only share their insights but bring some light-hearted entertainment to make the journey easier.

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